*“Mom, I’m at the cemetery, and there’s… there’s a grave with my name on it. What’s going on?”* I asked. Her calm response was chilling: *“I didn’t think you’d ever come back to see it.”* She explained that after Dad’s death, she felt as if she had lost me too, so she created the headstone as a way to cope.
But her actions hinted at something deeper. She had been overly concerned about my health, even giving me pills last year. I realized she was not just grieving but was obsessively trying to keep me close.
*“I couldn’t let you leave me like your father did,”* she confessed. To help her heal, I suggested she move closer to us. A week later, the headstone was removed, and we dismantled the shrine she had made for me at home.
Visiting Dad’s grave led me to uncover my mother’s troubling behavior, but it also marked the beginning of her healing and our journey forward together.
