From the outset, the relationship between the Reddit user and her husband’s mother was less than ideal. Regular remarks and uncomfortable comparisons characterized their interactions. However, the situation took a bizarre turn when the mother-in-law, who once critiqued her daughter-in-law, suddenly began praising her, going as far as imitating her and even mirroring the unique purple hue of her hair. Little did they know, this peculiar dynamic was about to reach new heights during their planned vacation.
The Reddit user recounts, “So, my husband and I took 2 weeks off work to go visit some places out of the country — tourism in other words. Thing is I was the one who saved up for and arranged for the trip (my husband was responsible for booking the tickets). My husband’s mom wanted to come along and threw temper tantrums when I said no. She called, texted, sent people to talk to me.” The conflict arose when the mother-in-law expressed a strong desire to join the vacation, resorting to various tactics, including threats, to secure an invitation.
Despite the firm stance against her mother-in-law’s inclusion, the woman faced an unexpected twist on the day of departure. “Things got quieter, suspiciously quieter. The day of the trip came and we got to the airport at 2pm. My husband was walking ahead of me and was looking left and right like he was looking for someone. I asked him but he didn’t respond. He lead me to the waiting area and first thing I saw was his mom standing there with her luggage.”
In response to this breach of boundaries, the woman decided to take a stand. “I froze in my spot, I felt a cold wave washing over me and I was fuming inside. She and my husband were hugging that’s when I quietly turned around and started walking towards the exit.”
Her decision to leave sparked a confrontation with her husband, who had secretly purchased a ticket for his mother. “An hour later, an hour later he came home yelling and raging about how pathetic and spiteful I was to walk out and go home and ruin the trip last minute.” The aftermath revealed a fractured relationship, with the husband attempting to justify his actions and the woman seeking support from thousands of online commentators.
The Reddit user, now residing with her sister and loyal dog, has become a symbol of standing up against unwarranted intrusions.
- “He’s chosen his partner. Please don’t let him gaslight you into thinking that going behind your back, lying to your face, and neglecting your feelings was okay; the two of them ruined the trip you paid for, you did the right thing when you walked away.” © qlanga / Reddit
“You told your boundaries, you said no. She crossed it. Your husband told you he would tell her no, he lied. - He tried to pin you in a corner by not saying anything and bringing her anyways and got upset you refused to be a part of his little trap? And then to berate you? He’s not a good man.” ©
PeanutButter_Toast_ / Reddit
“Also. Let’s not forget that if OP’s money was used, they also technically stole from OP to book an extra ticket.” © potatoyuzu / Reddit - “This is reeking of a unhealthy mother-son relationship.” © trashyteal / Reddit
“That is not a husband. That is a mama’s boy who would lie, undermine, manipulate, gaslight, and harass his wife in order to please his mommy. There are so many levels of this which utterly horrify me. The disrespect is almost unfathomable. Also, what is your family doing? What are they thinking by siding with him on this? I would cut off all contact with them and hire a divorce attorney immediately.” © WanderingPine / Reddit
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