But suddenly, a family crisis threatens to turn your romantic getaway into a group therapy session. Welcome to the world of modern family dynamics, where the lines between support and boundary-crossing often blur.

Our reader finds herself in this exact predicament. Her sister-in-law, Sarah, is navigating the choppy waters of a recent breakup. It’s a situation that tugs at the heartstrings – we’ve all been there or know someone who has.
The family’s solution? Send Sarah on the newlyweds’ honeymoon as a pick-me-up. On the surface, it might seem like a generous gesture. But let’s dive deeper into why this well-intentioned suggestion is problematic on multiple levels.