I’m so tired of this shit I want to break up with my girlfriend. Me and my girlfriend are in our early 20s and she has a 14 yo sister who has a crush on me. She’s always trying to find a way to help me out, talk to me, tries to be alone with me, wears her better clothes around me and has been getting into makeup trying to copy her sister’s look. I don’t think it’s cute the way everyone else does. They laugh and humor her and tease her about her crush on me by saying things like “I saw (girlfriend’s) boyfriend today..or is he your boyfriend?” It’s so gross and uncomfortable. The recent times I’ve tried getting alone time with my girlfriend at her house were interrupted by her sister pounding on her door asking us what we’re doing.
It just blows my mind how no one thinks that it’s weird and they basically encourage her. She’s gotten a slap on the wrist once for trying to unlock her sister’s door while we were in there together but that’s it. They all think it’s just a funny little crush that’ll go away. My girlfriend especially thinks it’s so funny because she knows I would never go for a child. No fucking shit I wouldn’t. It doesn’t bother her because she’s 14. I worry that one day her sister will start spinning fantasies about “things we did”. I’m in my 20s for fuck’s sake. I can’t have a lie ruining my life.
I’ve talked to my girlfriend about her sister’s behavior and how serious I am multiple times but she always blows me off. I really love my girlfriend and we’ve been together for 2 years now but I want to call it quits. I really wanted to marry her someday too. No one is taking me seriously and the last thing I ever need is a child saying I came onto them or something like that. I don’t even visit the way I used to anymore just to avoid a fucking 14 year old. That’s depressing. My girlfriend doesn’t like to come over to my apartment because I have roommates and her house is way nicer but I won’t go over there anymore because of her sister.
Source: Reddit/TrueOffMyChest
